Broken home is disastrous delicate and unbearable to the child or children. It disorganizes the destiny of the children. the worse part of it is when the family become a polygamous. It weakens the direction of the children. It destroys their dreams. It is a big mistake which is too late to claim.
Heartbroken Children Live a Life of:
- LONLINESS It cannot work with love because it resists friendship. Since friendship was of great use and advantage to start loving. Some believe being lonely is to overcome enemy but it also contributed to things that can make one become enemy. A child cannot improve with lonliness; because failure to share with steers is a resistant to success. When a child is lonely, things will become boring and sadness will be replaced. This goes to parent. Don’t be too far. You have to be around to watch over your children. Show them that you still care. Make your children understand you. Do not exitate to study their right and wrong side. These will help you to nourish their broken hearted for you.
2. UNAVOIDABLE EXPERIENCES Especially when the children live with a wicked type. It is extremely misfortune to their inner mind. They lost control at most and seems to be as one without a silver spoon. Violent is built in their mind gradually as they grow. It predestines their ways of life. Hatred is a strong hold within them. It takes the grace of God for such children to concentrate and move on.
3. COMMUNICATION BARRIER It prevent free communication between parent to their children. And at the end, the love needed cannot be expressed anymore. Confident to their parent is no where to be found. To discharge what they have in mind might be a problem or could turn upside down to become rebellion as they grow. Which could delay them to proceed.
4. LACK OF TRUST Simplicity could be an attitude for some children, while rigid could become of others. They persevere in different areas. Most time, they live in agony.
5. INSPIRATION Dream is a life monitor to some that have the grace. They are inspired mostly from their experiences. Many are hustler. They struggle helter sketter to achieve their goal. Some take strong decisions that only God could change. Some call a spade a spade while some call a spade a spider. Their inspiration is their fate.
6. LIMITATION There are limited standard by which some can reach in life. Some are fortunate to be upgraded. Some are oriented mechanically. Some become terorist as a result of being neglected. They suffer loss and gain. It takes God grace for them to survive.
7. DANGER Many of these childre end up with bad reputation. Though, some are miraculously great. Revenge takes hold around them. Regret has room inside of them. They learn in hardship. Their habbits are either winning or win or lose. Resentment and Rebellion are parts of it all.